women's mood swing is really scary...it can make some people downright temperament...this is the time when apologize also cant help to sooth the temper...darn!
when a women get upset....and i do mean really really upset, she will become downright impossible to deal with. She will just leash out anything that comes to her mind or fancy. When you are in this situation, my advice is, do nothing. The more you try to sooth her nerves the more impossible she will be.
Why? because you are stroking her ego lor that's why! Even when she humiliates you in public, you shall keep quiet. If she gives you the direct cut, you shall accept it
In fact, i think you should even be thanking her for shredding your confidence apart. Thank her for making you feel so lowly, so unworthy...Even if the situation is not what she's thinking, you shall not be correcting her, less she give you "the look" and subject to one of her lectures again.
So conclusion is, just swallow it, even if the process might choke you to your premature death.
Take it in a stride....forget the fact that your self-esteem is lowered in another's eye....hmm which leads to defamation, no? ;p
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